
Caiman skull
March Break is upon us. There was an unusually high number of families with young children at the ROM. Because of this, we had more quality facilitations than normal. For me, the two memorable ones were with this mixed Asian-Caucasian girl and a family that looked like they belonged in an IKEA commercial.
The girl was about 8 or 9 and had really long bangs. Mixed race people are gorgeous, and she was very cute. My friend, Nancy, facilitated the birds and dinosaur table with her. I could tell from afar that the facilitation was going well. The girl looked at the objects with rapt attention and was responding to Nancy’s questions.
She then came over to my table, Teeth and Feeding. She immediately gravitated to the caiman. Most people have never heard of caimans and immediately assume the skull is that of an alligator, but she identified it correctly. I asked her if she had been here before. She said no. I don’t know why she would lie, but she seemed to know every object on the table, suggesting she had been through the specimens before. Nancy posited that she may have been here but had never received a full on facilitation, which may be true. She was quite attentive throughout our exploration of each skull. She knew “carnivore” but seemed to have not been exposed to the words “herbivore” and “omnivore”. For the first time, I used the analogy of a person doing a belly flop vs diving into water to explain the loon skull’s hydrodynamic (aerodynamic equivalent underwater) design. We went through all of the specimens on the table. When we concluded, she went to the skins table where Nancy rounded out her touch table experience. I would say that we average one awesome facilitation each shift. She was mine for that night. Facilitation with kids like her is a major reason why I love being a part of the museum. Curiosity FTW!!!
There was a mother, father, and son that night who looked like models in an IKEA commercial. The father wore a canvas-like spring jacket, slim pants (that weren’t hipsterish), and sported the beginnings of a pot-belly. The mother had a nice black outfit on with this shawl draped over her shoulder. The son looked like an average happy 7 year old. They were a really good looking family. What really left an impression on me was that the boy put on one of the turtle costume we have, and then the father put on our other turtle costume. They both wandered around the gallery for a few minutes with the costumes on.
The boy didn’t seem to get really into the facilitations. Nancy really had to work to get him interested with the Indian python skin, but he eventually got into it and understood how a snake’s scales help it slither forward. When he came to my table, he wasn’t engaged with much except for the shark jaw. I facilitated the table and talked with the mom and dad for a bit as they described their experience witnessing an alligator in the Florida Everglades launch into the air to snatch a bird in mid-flight. Apparently, the park ranger they told about their experience had never seen or heard about that type of alligator behaviour.
Anyways, they were a really good-looking family with what seemed to be a genuine familial bond. The vibe I got from observing and talking to them fits with my favourite IKEA commercial.
IKEA “Long Live the Home” from TWC Films on Vimeo.